Ouch!

I hurt somebody's feelings. I'm not sure exactly what I said or did, but I hurt her feelings and now I'm getting the snub. I offered my apology, said I hoped we could move past it, but I'm thinking it's not very likely. So, what now? I cried a little, even kind of "mourned" a little about it, because she's someone who's a part of my every day and it's going to change the dynamics of my life...BUT, the worst part was when I had to face the fact that I say the wrong thing... a lot. My former roommate used to introduce me by saying, "This is Lori, she's kind of abrasive." Ummm...he was right. I'm kind of an anomaly - I wear my heart on my sleeve, cry over commercials, and love fiercely, but I'm also a "Chandler" - I make bad jokes and say some not-so-nice things when I'm in a group because I get nervous. So, please know that if I hurt YOUR feelings by saying something that I thought was said in a joking manner, but it stuck with you because it was a crappy thing for me to say, I'm really sorry. I'm going to work on it, I promise!